Everyone has their opinion on nearly everything, but usually people will keep their opinions to themselves in a public place like, say, the grocery store. All this changes, though, when you have children. For some reason, taking one's children into public gives most people the
perceived permission to comment.
It's strange, being the mother of 4 small children. Everyone has something to say about it. Well, not EVERYONE, but usually every other person or so. The most common is, "You have your hands full," which is about as useful a statement as, "You cut your hair!" Another common one is "Are all those
yours?" (accompanied by look of utter disbelief). Sometimes I wish I had a shirt that says:
Yes, we know about birth control and we chose to have this many children anyway.It's sad to say but most comments are negative like that, even if all my children are dressed to the nines and behaving like angels. On occasion, someone (usually a sweet elderly lady) has something very encouraging to say such as, "Oh, I had 8 kids within 3 years and it was the best years of my life." My favorite from yesterday's Costco trip is, "I bet you can leap tall buildings in a single bound too!" That was a first. I liked that one.
I try to remind myself that being a spectacle like this is a great opportunity to be a light in this world. God says that children are a
blessing and motherhood is
honorable. And He's not saying that sarcastically! More on that in a later post...
So all you mothers out there, hold your head high with pride, put on your thick skin, and let your light shine!